Describing all the secrets in life.
Ii shall provide here all some way that how we can success in life?or how can we win peoples hearts or family’s best one then you must read all these steps and you will be eligible to make yourself best one.
1)TAKE RESPONSIBILITY:
What do you think defines a man?
His age? His ability to make a woman pregnant? Or his ability to work?
Maturity is not in age but in responsibility. Some folks are forty and immature. I see people who grow old but do not grow up; with the idea that life is a playground. Maturity begins when you take responsibility.
What do you think defines a man?
His age? His ability to make a woman pregnant? Or his ability to work?
Maturity is not in age but in responsibility. Some folks are forty and immature. I see people who grow old but do not grow up; with the idea that life is a playground. Maturity begins when you take responsibility.
How do you respond to situations? Do you blame other people for your actions or misfortune or do you take responsibility.It is about not blaming others when things don’t go the way you hoped. Instead of looking for somebody else to blame, you can turn it around and take responsibility for your part in the drama.Taking responsibility is an open door that leads to trust. Your mum tells you to watch your younger brother before she leaves for the market. While she is away, you clean the house, do the laundry, feed your brother and help him with homework. Can you imagine the joy that will be on your mum‟s face when she returns? That is what taking responsibility is all about. Now she is assured that she can travel for a week and you will be able to take care of the house, she now trusts you.Now imagine it the other way when she goes to the market and returns to a nasty looking house. Things are not where they ought to be and something gets missing to crown it off. How do you think she would react? You most definitely will lose her trust and it will take a long time to earn it back.
2)HAVE A PURPOSE :
Every one of us should have a purpose in life; we should have goals in life. That is the essence of living. Your purpose in life should be the reason why you wake up every morning. Each day should have its own purpose and do not go to bed until you are sure you accomplished the goals of that day.
Why are you born?
What are your purposes in life?
What are your short term and long term goals?
If you do not have answers to these questions, then you have a lot of home work to do. Our purpose in life defines who we are. Show me a man whose life is driven by purpose and I will show you a man who will succeed in life. Efforts and courage are not enough without purpose and direction and constancy to purpose is the secret of success.
Napoleon Hill said, “There is one quality which one must possess to win, and that is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants, and a burning desire to possess it.”
3)IT’S OK TO FAIL BUT IT’S NOT GIVE UP ON OUR DREAMS:
Some people view failure as the enemy but it isn‟t, failure shouldn‟t be the reason why you stop trying. Most people are scared of failing so they do not attempt to try anything. A man who has never failed in life has never learnt anything.
“It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well have not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default” – J.K. Rowling.
Do you remember when you were trying to walk as a baby?
Of course not, you were too little but pretend you remembered. Initially, you started by standing then you took the first step but you fell down. My mum used to tell me that anytime I tried taking a step and I fell, I would start crying.
(Why would baby Livingstone cry because he failed when he attempted to walk? He was so naïve).
Back to our story, so you took another step and you fell again. You didn‟t cry like me and you didn‟t give up but you kept on trying and today you are jumping like a frog and running like a rabbit. Failure is the key to success; each mistake teaches us something.Do not give up because you failed in an attempt to achieve your goals in life. Rather learn from your failures and give it another shot. Failing doesn‟t make you a failure. Failure gives you an opportunity to learn from your mistakes.Use this in your day to day activity, you failed a course in school does not mean that you are dull. Know why you failed that course and use that as an advantage. Go back and retake the course and this time around, score higher. Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.
4)MAKE NEW FRIENDS:
When I hear people say they are introverts and have no friends, I usually wonder how they live their life. A life of that sort strikes me as boring. Friends are important set of individuals in my life and my friends have impacted in me greatly and I believe I have also impacted in them too. If you want to go fast in life, go alone but if you want to go far, go with a friend who has the same vision as you.
Friends shouldn‟t be just folks you hang out with, laugh with or play with. Friends should be folks who are interested in you and your betterment, interested in your success, guys who love what you do and are willing to assist you in achieving your dreams. Friends should come with benefit and if you have individuals in your life you call friends and they do not really add anything to you or you do not impact in them, why then are you guys friends?
Friendship is like a spaceship and you need to choose carefully who comes on board or else there will be confusion. The issue is not having friends; the issue is having the right kind of friends. I keep telling young folks anytime I‟m invited to give a talk on “Making Friends”- Not everyone is expected to be your friend, if there is no positive impact between the both of you, please end the relationship. There are some people you call friends who always gossip about other people with you and still you call them your friends. I will shock you with this, “if your friend always gossip about other people with you, that friend will surely gossip about you with other people”.
So guys,
5) It’s all about our choices,we make
Life is a series of choice and everything we do in life revolves round the choices we make. You can choose to either remain in bed or get up to work and the choices we make in life are a reflection of who we are. It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. If you make the wrong choices, you discover yourself in wrong places and vice versa.
A popular story goes thus:
There was this particular man who had 3 servants and was preparing to embark on a long journey. He called his 3 servants and gave the first one 5 talents, the second 3 talents and the third 1 talent and went on his journey. The first servant who had 5 talents decided to invest his talent and made 5 more talents which made a total of 10 talents. The second servant did likewise and made 3 more talents making a total of 6 talents but the last servant decided to bury his talent due to fear of the master…
The story goes further but our focus is on the extract above. Each servant made a decision and they got their results. If you want to be successful, then you have to decide today.
6)SAVING IS MUST:
For those of you who have read my previous free e-book “70 PUSH UPS FOR SUCCESS”, I explained how to go about this. Do not save after you have spent all your cash or you will be broke. Always try to save before spending, I know it a little bit difficult when you have so many expenses and debts to take care of but you just have to do this.
Do not save what is left after spending but spend what is left after saving. Wealthy people invest first and spend what‟s left but Broke people spend first and invest what‟s left. When you get your pay checks or your allowance, please save a portion of it. I advise folks to always save at least 10% of their monthly pay and you will be amazed at what you will get at the end of 5 years.
I told a friend of mine this same principle and wished she had listened to me. One month later she called me and told me that she was broke and needed some money. I asked if she had saved any money by applying the principle I taught her and she said “NO”. She told me that she had started selling some of her properties to raise cash for herself before her parents send her more money. There was nothing I could do because she had missed it from the beginning. But she promised to apply the principle on her next allowance.
7)FAMILY IS EVERYTHING:
Your family is the main and important for you guys.
Kids do not understand what‟s going on. They don‟t get the idea that you want to spend time with them but cannot because you have to be at work to be able to put food on the table, buy clothes for them and put them in the best schools. They only understand who shows up when they are in need.
Whatever you do, please try and create time to spend with your kids, they really need your presence. It‟s all about quality of life and finding a happy balance between work and friends and family.
you must spend too much time with your family like as your parents your brother and too much with your darling.
When you will follow these strategy,I hope you will be able to choose your self as best one .
Tech Nand 